If you’re reading this website, it’s probably because you are, or were, involved with someone whose behavior is simply unfathomable. Since then, I’ve collected more than 5,000 cases, conducted multiple Internet surveys, and written three books.You are shocked by this individual’s capacity to lie, and lie convincingly. You will begin to feel that you are on “probation”, despite having no idea what you’ve done wrong.You may become passive aggressive, drafting out long emails about their changed behavior and complete lack of contact. They may routinely torture, murder, and/or commit evil acts nearly as bad as the Big Bad. The people they fight beside are shocked with their behavior, but try to tell themselves, "At least they're on our side." Even that may not be true in the end, where it may be suggested that this "hero" has become as evil as any of the monsters he vanquished.
Sherlock: Then I'll continue not to make that mistake. Common rationalizations either by the hero himself or on the hero's behalf include Asshole Victim, Utopia Justifies the Means, It's All About Me, or It's What I Do.
Instead, you will torture yourself, carrying out the remainder of the abuse for them.
They will leave you alone with your thoughts, planting subtle hints and suggestions over social networking to encourage your paranoia.
If you are on a personal connection, like at home, you can run an anti-virus scan on your device to make sure it is not infected with malware.
If you are at an office or shared network, you can ask the network administrator to run a scan across the network looking for misconfigured or infected devices.