The reasonis simple: A child's own identity is very much tied to that of his family.
The honest connection was so pure, so revolutionary, that my “slow” rule was tossed after the first kiss. And even then, it might be more of a hug and a peck and not a full-blown French kiss.What's hard is that I know my parents aren't happy with my situation and they feel like I should find somebody who 1) isn't divorced and 2) doesn't have kids. but his children arent lol i tried so hard to be accepted by them .. The kids know about me and the two times we met he told me they really liked me.I respect that they are concerned about me and my situation but can't they just be happy that I'm happy right now? It seems he's not sure how to bring me into their relationship. It really helps that it's anonymous because I got comments from friends that they would not say to my face. He gets his children every other weekend and on those weekends, I don't see him nor am I invited to do things with them. Personally, I have found this website very helpful because it helped me easily get anonymous feedback from friends about my relationship. I'm head over heels, but recently I've wondered myself if I am getting what I need from this relationship.