Beginning a serious relationship with somebody doesn’t just mean another person coming into their lives, it means all the routine and order that they have in their life will change, to be replaced by something else.
Here are some of the good reasons to love an aspie.
This also applies to the part of the relationship that includes sex and romance: very often there is no sexual relationship at all; or the NT-partner feels as if she is the Mom of the partner, who behaves like an immature child in an adult’s body; or the female with Asperger’s in the relationship can become asexual, as soon as a child is born; or the middle-aged male-partner with Asperger’s (ASD) and a good academic career can’t understand why it is wrong to expose his private parts in public areas, if he feels like it.
These are some of the confusing scenarios which arise regularly in NT/ASD marriages.
Many NT-AS marriages seem to quickly become celibate.
In her research on sex in NT-AS relationships Maxine Aston found that fifty per cent of the couples reported, that there was no sexual activity within their relationship.