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And their own unique way of bringing singles together for dates.

A writer, artist and designer since she was young enough to put pencil to paper, Hilary spends most of her time in France, but still considers herself a New Yorker, and visits regularly.

Ladies, I’m going to clue you into something: I don’t know who you are. Are you going to talk about how you can bench press more than him? Worst of all, the thing that infuriates me more than anything is the women with zero social skills.

When you say, “say something creative,” or “say something that will make me laugh,” we have no idea how to do that. How about, “You better have DD boobs if you want a shot with me? For as much as I’ve read about how vain guys are and how men hold women to impossible beauty standards, this stipulation in a lot of girls’ profiles is just that: vain, shallow and superficial. Now, at this point, maybe you’re thinking, You could very well be right.

And while I’m no longer in the dating pool, I definitely remember many a month when I felt like all the attractive and kind men had gone into hiding.

NYC is a tough place to find love in, but there are ways to make it easier.